Why Women Fall In Love With Their Best Guy Friend

I bet every woman out there has got feelings for her best guy friend at some point in her life. It may have been years ago, or just recently. It might have been a past guy friend or a current one. It happened to Julia Roberts on My Best Friend's Wedding, and it could happen to any single female out there.

Maybe that same guy was totally mystified as to how his best female friend could fall in love with him. After all, you were only friends. Isn't it interesting though how the same guy can be mystified as to why it didn't work out with his one night stand with the hottie at the local bar?

When a single woman and a single guy become friends, there isn't sex involved. At least there shouldn't be, but a lot of people are wanting to change that rule. They develop a relationship, getting to know each other without the pressure of sex. Your best guy friend calls you to talk to you, and he wants to spend time with you. He laughs at your jokes. He's there for you when you need someone to talk to.

Those things are what women need in a romantic relationship as well. Instead of receiving that, women today are bombarded with all types of sexual pressure. How can you get to know someone when that person isn't interested in you as a person? So with the constant sexual pressure, it's impossible to form a meaningful relationship.

A relationship has to be based on the person themselves. What's between their eyes guys, not between the legs. We all know that men want sex. We all know that you let the penis do the picking. We all know that you're just going to fall over and die if you can't relieve your bad case of blue balls. We get it! Just know that the more you pressure for sex, the less likely you are going to get it.

So when a woman develops a close friendship with a man, she is doing that without all the sexual pressure. He enjoys her for the person that she is, not because of what he's going to get at the end of the evening. So it's not a big surprise that many women find themselves falling in love with their best guy friend.

It seems to me that a lot of single guys have it all wrong. Women, being the emotionally wonderful creatures that we are, want to be loved, cherished, and romanced. A woman that feels that she's special to someone is going to be much more likely to want a sexual side to her relationship with him.